USER_NAME: GeorgeW6
QUESTION: "How can I take the "I" out of my conversations?"
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"you" is one of the twelve most powerful dictions of the English language. "You" is in the ranks with words like "money" "easy," "love" and "Guarantee" for persuasive effect.

When conversing with someone treat it like an interview.

Apply word "you" more than the word "I" gives the impression that the focus is on the receiver of the message and thus it shows your softer human side. As a result you show a deeper sense of appreciation.
This is where I got information from.

http://www.buzzle.com/articles/interview-t...he-mistake.html

I think it would be helpful for you to read abou interview tip because after all what you do in life is a practice for everything else.